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In the face of adversity, we’re often forced to confront our deepest fears, our greatest weaknesses, and our most profound doubts. Yet, it’s in these moments of vulnerability that we discover our greatest strengths, our most profound resilience, and our most unyielding spirit.

Maya Angelou was a prolific writer and activist during the Civil Rights era. While she never earned a College Degree, her teachings have impacted the lives of many people. She was given the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2010 by President Barack Obama.

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“You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats so you can know who you are, what you can rise above from, how you can still come out of it.”

~ Maya Angelou

Adversity teaches us to adapt, to innovate, and to overcome. It shows us that we’re capable of more than we ever thought possible.

“In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing”

~ Theodore Roosevelt

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It is in the darkest of adversity we come face to face with our vulnerabilities. Proved through fire we can have this hope, that we will rise above the ashes of shattered dreams or life’s circumstances that made change necessary for survival. That we don’t just survive but live. That we may truly live.

We Can’t Go It Alone

Faced with a the possibility of a life long disability from a near fatal motor vehicle accident while on the job, I am asking for your help. Workers Compensation is for the employer not the injured worker. I think they either forget or just entirely dismiss the fact that my injuries were so severe I almost died. My case worker manipulated a situation to falsely claim I was refusing to work and then proceeded to cut me off my wage loss benefits. The trauma I went through means nothing to these people. This resulted in nearly being handed a 10 Day Eviction Notice. Thanks to some of the donations I received I managed to be saved from eviction but it’s not over yet! I am still facing eviction.

I can’t go it alone. You might say you don’t have anything to give. And that is fine but before deciding that you don’t have anything to give, do you have $10 $20 or $40 in you to donate? Because anything will help as I continue to recover from a near fatal motor vehicle accident and loss of wages.

Thank you

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Journey Through Life Changing Trauma

On February 4, 2024 I was involved in a work related accident that was near fatal and life changing. This has presented in challenges that have made it especially difficult during my recovery. I experience Post Traumatic Stress Symptoms, Anxiety, and Depression. All of this has worsened and brought to light a heart condition I have which is LongQT Syndrome. LongQT Syndrome with Anxiety is considered a disability. I will experience significant challenges when it comes to returning to work. Work Safe has not only affirmed my case stating that I was not willfully negligent and that my injuries that are currently compensable or not in question so my employer who appealed Work Safe’s initial ruling was no successful. After a failed attempt at a return to work program my file was transferred to Vocational Rehabilitation and long term benefits. I have been assessed for a Pension but at this point I am not sure how much I will be awarded in that Pension. This assessment will take time.

Injuries from my accident

  • Fractured Larynx
  • 2 Right Rib Fractures (9th & 11th)
  • Pneumothorax (punctured lungs associated with fractured ribs)
  • Lacerated Spleen
  • Hemothorax (collection of blood within the body in association with the lacerated spleen)
  • Transverse Process fractures L1, L2, L4 (These fractures are tiny bones within the spinal column)
  • Comminuted Fracture upper Left Humerus bone (upper arm involving the shoulder joint requiring surgery)
  • Post Traumatic Stress

Journey through Writing

The best way people can support me is by being present. Sometimes I fight thoughts of being alone and all I need is human connection. You can’t put a price on human connection. Instead of being inundated with negative thoughts I would much rather focus on the positive. I would much rather speak to myself words of compassion, mercy, and be present to myself. In the process, through it I will write in my blog and share with you my journey. We could all use a little human connection and find encouragement.

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