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Why You?

Shortly after my motor vehicle accident a neighbour and friend of mine was found dead in her apartment. She was younger than me. She had way more friends than me. I should have died and she should have lived but I lived and she died. It doesn’t make sense. It’s unfair that I could survive a horrific crash and young people, seemingly healthy can just go to sleep one night and never wake up. The death of my friend and my mom, and the events surrounding their deaths were the same. So when my friend died this hit me really hard. It brought back the memory of my mothers death. We never know when our last day will be so we can squander away this life or we can accept each day as a gift. I know my mom would want me to cherish each day and to live as full life as possible.

Helen Keller

Helen Keller, born in 1880 and died 1968, was a remarkable American woman who defied the odds of a life-altering disability to become a renowned author, speaker, and advocate for the blind and deaf. She remains as an iconic symbol of hope and empowerment, proving that with hard work and determination, anything is possible.

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“True happiness is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose”

~ Helen Keller

Certainly Helen Keller had great adversity to face. She was both deaf and blind but she calls us to find our purpose. How do we know our purpose? What fills you with passion, joy, and happiness? I bet you anything you will find your purpose there.

Tony Robins

Tony Robins is a renowned American motivational speaker, life coach, and self-help author. He rose from a tumultuous childhood to become one of the most influential figures in personal development. I remember his late night advertisements; paid commercials that aired on TV in the middle of the night when most people were sleeping. I laughed at this guy who had his “followers” walking over hot coals with their bear feet. I was starting to feel like he was a cult leader. Years later he is wealthy and thriving. Maybe he was onto something.

“Your purpose in life is to live in alignment with your values and beliefs”

~ Tony Robins

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We don’t have to sell our soul to be successful. We just have to know who our people are and sometimes you gotta get up and just do it but do it with such determination like you are walking over hot coals with your bear feet.

The only person who can get you to a life that is filled with purpose and meaning, is you.

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Journey Through Life Changing Trauma

On February 4, 2024 I was involved in a work related accident that was near fatal and life changing. This has presented in challenges that have made it especially difficult during my recovery. I experience Post Traumatic Stress Symptoms, Anxiety, and Depression. All of this has worsened and brought to light a heart condition I have which is LongQT Syndrome. LongQT Syndrome with Anxiety is considered a disability. I will experience significant challenges when it comes to returning to work. Work Safe has not only affirmed my case stating that I was not willfully negligent and that my injuries that are currently compensable or not in question so my employer who appealed Work Safe’s initial ruling was no successful. After a failed attempt at a return to work program my file was transferred to Vocational Rehabilitation and long term benefits. I have been assessed for a Pension but at this point I am not sure how much I will be awarded in that Pension. This assessment will take time.

Injuries from my accident

  • Fractured Larynx
  • 2 Right Rib Fractures (9th & 11th)
  • Pneumothorax (punctured lungs associated with fractured ribs)
  • Lacerated Spleen
  • Hemothorax (collection of blood within the body in association with the lacerated spleen)
  • Transverse Process fractures L1, L2, L4 (These fractures are tiny bones within the spinal column)
  • Comminuted Fracture upper Left Humerus bone (upper arm involving the shoulder joint requiring surgery)
  • Post Traumatic Stress

Journey through Writing

The best way people can support me is by being present. Sometimes I fight thoughts of being alone and all I need is human connection. You can’t put a price on human connection. Instead of being inundated with negative thoughts I would much rather focus on the positive. I would much rather speak to myself words of compassion, mercy, and be present to myself. In the process, through it I will write in my blog and share with you my journey. We could all use a little human connection and find encouragement.

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